New Facebook Groups - How to Protect Yourself

Facebook made some new announcements this week. As usual, it is important to note what they have done and redo the settings on your personal account. The most noticeable change is the change in Facebook Groups.  There were some positive intentions with this change, however, the current platform allows new activities that most definitely impact your experience on Facebook.

A woman that I am friends with on Facebook created a new Facebook group, with a title suggesting that the members are elite in some way, and added me to the group along with 160+ other people.

This in itself has some issues. Do we all agree with the curation of the members? I founded a group called Women on Top while I was CEO of Club Med in Japan. We let all members participate in the process of vetting members. Complex process but we definitely built a kick-ass group.

So what happens when you get added to a Facebook Group? Every time someone comments on the group, everyone in the group gets an email notification. I am including my email inbox today as an example to show you what happens in default mode.

Much of the commentary on the group on the first day was chatter about archiving all these emails. Perhaps there should be a setting choice for an email digest instead of individual ones? Personally, I don't need to be notified at all. If I want to see people's comments I can go to the group. The last thing I need is more stuff in my inbox right now. Yes, I can take these mails directly to a smart inbox folder - but do I need these mails on my computer? That is certainly up to you. If you think they are important and you want to look at them later at your leisure, you should archive them.

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The screen shot of my personal email inbox has been sanitized to remove the names of the participants following receipt of the complaints you see in comments here. I apologize - I didn't see anything sensitive in the screenshot. The first 2 - 3 words of  comments are completely innocuous. But just FYI - The lack of an opt-in on Facebook Groups also lacks any agreement on the part of members to keep a private group private. Do read the Search Engline Land article linked to at the end of my post for further shenanigans encouraged by this move on Facebook.

The first time I encountered this type of thing was on Whrrl when they initiated the ability for Members to create "Societies" and add their friends to them at will. After being added to a "Society", the society began sending notification alerts to my iPhone as though it were one of the few notifications I actually wanted to get - each notification making a ding on my battery. Fortunately, Whrrl swiftly responded by clarifying we turn off that notification.  

Same with the new Facebook Groups. I didn't ask to be added nor to get email notifications, here they are but it looks like they can be turned off. AND you can reject the invitation by removing yourself.

I already have Facebook Chat turned off but apparently you will be buzzed by your Facebook chat. 

If you are added to a group, you DO have some choices.

Choice 1: Remove yourself from the Group:  Click on "Leave Group" as in picture below

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The head shots of 14 members were removed from this screen shot.

Choice 2: Limit Notifications.

There are several places to do this.

Click on Edit Settings: this is the first screen. The default is "Notify me when a member posts"

You can change that.

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This screen shot was photo-shopped to remove a member's comment.

Secondly you can choose these notifications - but you should want these.

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You'll see at the bottom of this group "change email settings for individual groups"

By default the group is clicked. You can unclick this:

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Meetup dot com can sometimes do short spews of correspondence but nothing like what has been created by this group.  And I joined MeetUp by my own choice.

As things settle down a bit and the ramifications of this move on Facebook become more clear, I will publish an article for my readers at Boomer Tech Talk.

Additions:
Found this great article Mari Smith posted on her Facebook by Danny Sullivan at SearchEngineLand. Danny does an excellent job making the point that Facebook Groups should be opt-in, not opt-out. Reading it, I felt glad that I've been selective in adding Facebook friends - but I still want opt-in.

Opt Out Instant Personalization AND Block Mafia Wars

I am continuing to add information to what I consider an important tips guide. Most of my additions are at the bottom under Further on The Instant Personalization Topic.

As you may have noticed, every time Facebook makes a major change to their website, you need to go in and reset your privacy settings.

You need to OPT OUT of the new Facebook Instant Personalization under your Privacy Settings so 3rd parties cannot collect your personal data.
Go to Account-->Privacy Settings-->Applications & Websites

Uncheck allow in the box below. The default appears to be that it is checked.

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For some of you, I believe it is newer Facebook users, the page will look like this screen below. Go to the bottom line that says Instant Pesronalization and choose edit setting

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That takes you to a second page where you will ensure that allow selective partners to instantly personalize their features with my personal information when I arrive on their websites.

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Block Specific Applications

But now that you are looking at your privacy page - also note the Blocked Applications line (the third one down)

Why not block Mafia Wars, Farmville and whatever applications you find annoying from accessing your wall? That way, instead of having to remove from friends people who have fallen victim to these obsessions, you can just block them from posting their latest game blip to your wall.
Facebook Help tells you what to do.

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The link they provide here to "Applications's Profile page" only works if you have already given permission to an application. The link takes you to Application Settings - Recently Used.OR go to "account" and then "application settings".

This example from my profile is cleaned up - there were other applications there because I had used Facebook Connect to post comments on a few sites.
Aside from Recently Used - there are other choices in the drop down. Take a look.

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The link for the application's profile page is as in the example below for Mafia Wars. Found at http://www.facebook.com/MafiaWars

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Further on the Instant Personalization Topic:

The keynotes and other live streams April 21 at #F8 for Facebook 3rd party Developers were very informative. There are replays at http://www.facebook.com/f8

Very Important Article from one of my faves, Robert Scoble called Facebook's Ambitions where he notes that Facebook wants to own your digital fingerprints.

Thank you to Marsha Collier for this link from Bobbi Newman @Librarianbyday Protect Your Privacy Opt Out of Facebook New Instant Personalization - Yes You Have to Opt Out

Bobbi points out another necessary step from a different page of Facebook help with this quote from Facebook:

To prevent your friends from sharing any of your information with an instant personalization partner, block the application: Microsoft Docs.com, Pandora, Yelp.

This is the same process I taught you above for blocking Mafia Wars but the links are not as easy to find for Microsoft Docs, Yelp and Pandora application related pages.

Go to this link in Facebook Help

Go to this section towards the bottom of the page - this gives you the click throughs for the links:

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Now click on each of the applications to block them so that your friends cannot share your personal information with those applications

Block Yelp

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Block Microsoft Docs

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Block Pandora

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http://www.readwriteweb.com has several good articles on this topic up now AND a really nice implementation of the like button on at the bottom of each of their articles. I was just the 3,242nd liker of an article explaining why you should definintely opt out. This was followed by an article warning of knee jerk reactions and a nice three page one for publishers which I bookmarked to my Delicious because let's face it, a like on my facebook profile is still ephermeral.

April 26, I attended OCWordPress Meetup where there was a lively discussion on this topic. First of all on the best plug-in to get the Facebook Like button on your blog with FBLike being the choice of the day. Then on the implications of the Facebook Open Graph. Kicking it all off was an excellent presentation by Gahlord Dewald explaining the implications for semantic search. For those of us that chase SEO trends, this is a very important development in the world of search.